Post Your Crushes Thread 3.0

[horsecrazychicklovingkid]

Oh my! What ever happened?!?!!?

Why is it your fault? Whats wrong?

Something stupid I did. And he blames himself but it was what I did.

 

[horsecrazychicklovingkid]

 

[member 142084]

Then pray hard, convince him of the truth, and if he's willing talk to someone who can help you together. I will pray for you too

 

[horsecrazychicklovingkid]

Then pray hard, convince him of the truth, and if he's willing talk to someone who can help you together. I will pray for you too

We've already talked to a counselor guy..sort of (the funny thing was he'd bought chickens from me before yikes!) And we both feel a lot better. The only problem is he can't handle being away from me. Which is a problem. Because we've just moved about 6 hours away. he can't live with us (obviously)..he might be able to live with my grandma who is 6 or 7 miles away, but it will be at least 4 months, possibly a year or longer. He has has some depression trouble. My dad and the guy and everybody is like well we can get you into a program blawdy blawdy blaw, maybe even antidepressants and he doesn't want people to help him he doesn't want drugs..and nobody understands that I'm his medicine, I'm his drug his counselor his helper, he's been trying to get it across to people but nobody understands, and they think separation will help me. But..oh I dunno. /: You'll never guess what happened, so don't try.

 

[horsecrazychicklovingkid]

Thank you for you prayers, they will be greatly appreciated by both of us.

 

[canada-goose]

I'm no expert, but I'd say that it sounds like he really needs some professional help. He may not want it, but I'd guess that he needs it.
I REALLY doubt it's healthy that he's so dependent on you.

 

[horsecrazychicklovingkid]

I'm no expert, but I'd say that it sounds like he really needs some professional help. He may not want it, but I'd guess that he needs it.
I REALLY doubt it's healthy that he's so dependent on you.

He wouldn't talk to them. He doesn't need a stranger who can't hope to understand him or what he's going through or any of his horrible past meddling in his life. I'm sorry, that's just how I feel about it. No offense to anyone.

 

[member 142084]

Hey girl these are really personal things that you are venting right now. I'm sure you do it here because you don't really know anyone and feel safe that way, but it's not safe. Maybe you can PM someone that you know well enough just to get it out and try to feel better. I reccommend not putting that out where everyone can see, for your own and his sake. It's easy to leap without looking, and even easier when you are young as you are. You can edit it out, and I advise doing so. Just remember that God can give his wisdom through the counsel of others, or even through the councel of many (not just refferring to a shrink).

 

[canada-goose]

I've never been in a situation like that so I'm not the best at giving advice. But I do think he should be talking to someone other than just you about this.

Oh, and you shouldn't be blaming yourself very much for anything that's going badly. Sounds like you're going way above and beyond the call of duty to help him.

 

[Miss Sebright]

C'est mon crush. Need to get a more recent pic though. XD