I turn to you, my BYC friends, for much sought after prayers for my DH and our marriage. God is Good in spite of our unlovely selves and I Trust in His Mercy. Our marriage has never been easy but the last few years have really been hard. Every time I think we are going to be O.K and get it all worked out ....... SIGH! My DH is going through some really rough and unlovely mental & emotional stuff right now. Oh, this is really bad. Anyhow, he has asked me for a divorce & I have said no. I will stand by my answer. The Lord is good and I asked of Him an explanion to a passage on marriage a few years back. It's taken awhile but I understand what has happened in this relationship. I tried to explain it to my DH, it does make perfect sense and holds true to His Word, but DH isn't buying it right now. A fundemental part of me has been set free & I will be O.K. no matter what happens with us. It still hurts. Thank you for your prayers. Trusting in the ONE who Holds it All.