Prayers Needed Badly - Update & TKS

[keeperofthehearth]

Thank you, Hoosiermomma.

 

[Hoosiermomma]

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No problem.

Keep your head up. You will get through this no matter what the outcome. You sound like you're a very strong person. I hope it all works out the way you want it too.

 

[Country Guy John]

My prayers are with you. Just take God @ His word that He will never leave or foresake you.

 

[b.hromada]

Prayers will be sent to you.

Marriage in and of itself is difficult at times, but not as much when someones mental health is a stake.

 

[ozark hen]

My heart breaks for you. I totally believe in the power of prayer but..............on His terms and not mine. Sometimes I am like a "used car salesman"...God if you do this...........I will give you this.................. you are totally in my prayers. Much easier to say, " Turn it over to God" then to actually practice it...for me anyway. I keep working on it.

 

[WingingIt]

I'm trying to learn that when I pray for something I should include 'or something better' because I don't always know the best answer/choice/result for myself. I'm praying for you, your DH and your marriage.....may He show your DH the blatant lie and how to ignore it......or some way better.

 

[keeperofthehearth]

Thank you all. Things are tense but at least DH has stopped the name calling. Nothing really resolved right now & it will have to be done. Everyone have a great Thankgiving Day. Thank you Lord for the many Blessings you bestow on your undeserving children. Amen.

 

[Sillystunt]

Ok, i am very sorry for the pain you are in right now. I understand your want to keep your marraige intact! I couldnt even imagine if i had to go through this BUT

I know it is hard, sometimes you might fight, he calls you names in the past, you have drifted apart. Do you ever think counseling might help or even if maybe it is time. (don't be upset, i am sure you have asked yourself this question and i pray it isn't time for you!)

I REALLY hope you all can heal and get stronger!!! if he has asked you for a divorce he isn't happy! Has he told you why? Don't give up and hold your ground . Just take ever step to keep it going and if it fails know it wasn't you !

Sending prayers

 

[key west chick]

I feel your pain. 3 years ago, after 13 years of marriage, my DH asked for a divorce. He was unhappy, not sure what he wanted, and we had been through a terrible last few years. I gave it all to God, prayed harder than I ever had in my entire life. We even had papers drawn up and I signed them. They were never filed. We just had our 16 anniversary last week. And while things are not great, they are better than they have been in a long time. He's still confused and unsure of what he wants, but we talk and he tries, and thats more than he was willing to do years ago. You have the biggest ally by your side that you can possibly have, God. Be strong, and follow where God leads you.

 

[Lunachick]

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Just like in a marriage, a pain half the time and a joy the other half, just more complicated. I hope it works out for you, either way, and you end up very happy.