I would think that if she is laying, then she would be mating with the Tom. Whenever I have had a Tom turkey, all the eggs have always been fertile.Yeah, this is the same behavior she had before she started laying last time last November and in the spring and she started laying eggs again 3 days ago.
She stayed on the nest until I took her eggs away because they weren’t fertile
The only thing I can think of is if she prefers you for a mate, hence the sitting next to you in the soliciting position. I don’t know if you can break her of this and get her to accept the tom, but I would at least try. I would stop treating her like a pet and pretty much stay away from her other than what is necessary for her care. Hopefully getting ignored by you will cause her to seek attention from the tom.
For future breeding birds, just try to raise turkeys with turkeys so they don’t imprint on humans. They can also imprint on chickens. I haven’t had that cause infertile turkey eggs, but I have had it cause smashed chickens.