You two can do it! I quit for good ten years ago. Sugarless gum helped a bit, especially since every time I popped in a piece I'd think, "This smells *so* much better than a cigarrette!" Also, for the true masochists, I did wind sprints whenever I was home and had a craving. They felt so terrible I had a very stark reminder of how I'd feel going up stairs in another 15 years or so.
I wish you they best of luck. There are lots of ways to quit, and you *will* find a way.

I wish you they best of luck. There are lots of ways to quit, and you *will* find a way.