Exactly. I get so tired of people declaring how cruel keeping a single rabbit is, because rabbits are "naturally" social, then explaining the elaborate, step-by-step process that is frequently necessary to get them to accept each other (starting with getting their hormones out of the way by neutering, a very unnatural procedure!), and including the statement that if you mess this up, these rabbits may never learn to get along . . . and I'm like, "if they are simply dying for the company of their own kind, why do you have to work so hard to keep them from killing each other?" Can they not see the contradiction in their own words?
I don't disagree with a single word you have said here and yet I am one of those who has gone through that elaborate, step-by-step process in order to pair my current two up. I had Lola, a neutered female, to begin with and she was paired with Lenny, a neutered male.....an easy pairing, they pretty much got along from the start. But when he passed away, Lola went off her food, became less active and less interactive with us and seemed generally depressed so we tried to pair her with another neutered female....a female just because a friend of a friend happened to be re-homing one at the time. It was a NIGHTMARE!!!! If we had pursued the matter, I have no doubt at all that one or both would have ended up severely injured or dead. We gave Lola some time to recover from the ordeal, found the other rabbit a new home with a neutered male....whom she accepted immediately, and then took in a neutered male from a rescue. Because we had upset Lola with the other attempts, we took the pairing really slowly, with short supervised visits, shared mealtimes, mutual grooming sessions etc and after some scuffles and initial aggression from Lola, they settled down and are now living together....grooming each other, laying together all the time, feeding together, snuggling up, playing etc. It worked. And Lola is back to eating properly and being active and interactive. In her case, despite the fact that she was clearly picky over who she wanted to spend time with, she definitely IS happier with a partner. I, personally, would ALWAYS work on the proviso that pairs or more are better but if it didn't work out, single is OK. I guess what I am saying is, I would never keep a single rabbit through MY choice, I would always attempt pairing and only accept a single rabbit situation if it was THEIR choice. As yet, in my years of keeping rabbits, I have never had one choose not to accept any pairing and all of their behaviour has indicated a preference for rabbit company. I do tend to keep lops though and they have a reputation for being more docile and amenable.