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Turkeys are big when full grown and may act similarly to a rooster though, the rooster, since he is smaller, is less of a threat than a full grown tom. A tom turkey will want to protect his flock and I've had three different toms over the course of 3 years. All three became somewhat aggressive toward some people. My brother was a target of the first one. It chased his truck down the driveway and eyeballed him the entire time even though he never did anything to provoke him.
We purchased a trio from a good friend here on BYC earlier this Spring. The tom is amazing. He follows us everywhere and is so docile. He loves pets but, we soon realized, he was wanting to love much more than the pets. (He would mount our feet) When an animal has no fear of you, things can get sticky. I don't mean to be abusive or dominant with an animal to gain the fear... it's just something that is natural to most animals. They realize you are dominant and that's that.
He is now coming out of breeding season and is also molting. I don't know if he's moody or what but, I notice from one day to the next, he can be aggressive or standoffish but, isn't as sweet as he used to be. He is also running with a lot of young poults right now that were hatched in an incubator and I just let free range a couple of weeks ago. I think he is playing protector of them so I try to just steer clear of him and I tell my kids that as well (3 and 5) They
are little tormentors and I wonder if their rough play created this problem. They never really chased him but, my youngest would grab him and hang on him. I am very firm with them around the animals and they know better than to torment but, kids at that age just cannot be trusted. They are curious and want to play and don't realize what they are doing is causing stress to the animals. I have to keep a close eye on them and I do explain that the tom is protecting his flock and that he will attack them. They seem to listen more to him than to me
I am hoping that, with time things will settle. If I have to, I'll pen them up.