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all i can say is..you CANT protect his bad behaviors forever...he may just have to learn the hard way....if you have to call the police....its his choice. i'd make that VERY clear to him....its HIS choice how things will proceed....i honestly believe that is the only way they will learn sometimes....by 2 things: #1 he will be held accountable for ALL his actions....and #2 the parent HAS to be consistant with the rules and consequences! *otherwise its VERY mean to the child...because you are sending him VERY mixed messages and how is he supposed to act then? if one day he gets away with something..and yet the next day...he is getting punished...*..so, basically..it's being consistant with them....no mixed messages AND he HAS to live with the repercussions from his behavior...thats all YOU can do..the rest is really up to him.....if he wants to go to jail...its HIS choice really...i also wanted to add...i think you are doing an awesome job!...sometimes they freak out at first when things change for them..and new harder rules are set in place, AND when they get caught at something!..;o)....they usually get over it....just stay firm with him. good luck again! ;o)
all i can say is..you CANT protect his bad behaviors forever...he may just have to learn the hard way....if you have to call the police....its his choice. i'd make that VERY clear to him....its HIS choice how things will proceed....i honestly believe that is the only way they will learn sometimes....by 2 things: #1 he will be held accountable for ALL his actions....and #2 the parent HAS to be consistant with the rules and consequences! *otherwise its VERY mean to the child...because you are sending him VERY mixed messages and how is he supposed to act then? if one day he gets away with something..and yet the next day...he is getting punished...*..so, basically..it's being consistant with them....no mixed messages AND he HAS to live with the repercussions from his behavior...thats all YOU can do..the rest is really up to him.....if he wants to go to jail...its HIS choice really...i also wanted to add...i think you are doing an awesome job!...sometimes they freak out at first when things change for them..and new harder rules are set in place, AND when they get caught at something!..;o)....they usually get over it....just stay firm with him. good luck again! ;o)
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