So, in other posts, I was told it was time to make friends with my neighbors. I'm posting this here because I don't want to disrupt that thread and I needed to wait to respond.
Those neighbors used to be friends, but then her husband wanted to go in with a buddy of his and use some of our land for a garden. I posted about this elsewhere. He got cancer after the land was tilled and before planting. As a favor to him, we planted it, expecting his buddy to help. No such luck, so taking care of an enormous plot alone. I honestly don't remember how big, something like 80 x 60. I knew she like beans, so picked a big basketful and brought them to her, since she never came over, and was told I needed to do that for the buddy. I used to visit just to talk and got lectured about how bad my oldest daughter was and how my neighbor sympathized with me - which shocked me no end because my daughter and I always had a great relationship and were more like friends. There were other incidents but it was too stressful for me at the time, being a polite person, to deal with constant talks down to me. Just not on the same wavelength and raised differently. So I stopped visiting, but checked in periodically after her husband died. Went over the year we had -4 temps to make sure she had heat and was ok. Her house burned down about a year ago and she bought camper trailers for herself and two families she had staying with her. I brought her a cup of tea and some clothes that morning and to see what I could do for her. I passed the family that was living with her at the time and said I was so sorry they had to go through this and was glad they were all safe. They all sneered at me and turned their backs. Since then, one of the families bought 2 large dogs to live with them in their tiny 20' camper. Those dogs were never tethered or fenced or inside, we're a leash law county, and a main highway runs between us. Those dogs terrorized my chickens for 3 months before both were hit by cars and left on the side of the road. Our front fence has been "rolled" and now a rooster dropped off.
So no, now is not time to meet the neighbors.