JakeBarnes
In the Brooder
Hi all, this is my first post. We’re new to chicken-keeping. We’ve had a bit of a rough introduction. We initially bought two day-old chicks, with a plan to get more in the future. They were lovely and we bonded with them nicely and they seemed to love cuddles with us (We could be projecting, I know). Anyone one of them died and we quickly went out and got two more to keep the survivor free. A few days later the other original chick died and the next day one of the newer arrivals died. We took our last remaining chick to the bird vet and he confirmed she had coccidiosis - $360 later she is still with us. After cleaning the brooder out thoroughly we ended up getting three more chicks. They have all survived but one of them, an Orpington, has turned out to be a rooster 
Emotionally, we’d love to keep him - I think Roosters are beautiful birds and I don’t want to condemn him to a brutal end that he wouldn’t have if we kept him - but we live in the city. The city rules ban roosters, but frankly I wouldn’t care about that if I thought we could get away with it. Keeping him would mean a no-crow Rooster collar. What are people’s experience with them - how well do they work, are they cruel, do the roosters get used to them? If I started using one early, as in before he learned to crow, and was careful about adjusting the size as he grew, would it work better - ie would he never even realise how loudly he would be able to crow without it and would that change his behaviour?
The other considerations are the hens - there are three of them (well, I have some concerns one of those may be a rooster too because of late feathering) Will they be over-mated? Will they all be miserable? We plan to free range them during the day.
Also, I’ve got two little boys, one is three and the other is one. Will they be safe around roosters?
Finally, on a non-rooster related question. I mentioned earlier that we bonded nicely with the original day old chicks. That hasn’t really happened with theses others. They are flighty and seem to want to avoid me (the Cocci survivor, who we have had the longest, is a little better than the others). They feel more like captives than pets (which is what we were after). Is that likely to change as they get older, or if they want to avoid us now will it always be like that? Should I just get ducks instead next time
Thanks for reading, any advice will be greatly appreciated.

Emotionally, we’d love to keep him - I think Roosters are beautiful birds and I don’t want to condemn him to a brutal end that he wouldn’t have if we kept him - but we live in the city. The city rules ban roosters, but frankly I wouldn’t care about that if I thought we could get away with it. Keeping him would mean a no-crow Rooster collar. What are people’s experience with them - how well do they work, are they cruel, do the roosters get used to them? If I started using one early, as in before he learned to crow, and was careful about adjusting the size as he grew, would it work better - ie would he never even realise how loudly he would be able to crow without it and would that change his behaviour?
The other considerations are the hens - there are three of them (well, I have some concerns one of those may be a rooster too because of late feathering) Will they be over-mated? Will they all be miserable? We plan to free range them during the day.
Also, I’ve got two little boys, one is three and the other is one. Will they be safe around roosters?
Finally, on a non-rooster related question. I mentioned earlier that we bonded nicely with the original day old chicks. That hasn’t really happened with theses others. They are flighty and seem to want to avoid me (the Cocci survivor, who we have had the longest, is a little better than the others). They feel more like captives than pets (which is what we were after). Is that likely to change as they get older, or if they want to avoid us now will it always be like that? Should I just get ducks instead next time

Thanks for reading, any advice will be greatly appreciated.