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Ahh, but "left behind" isn't exactly what they were.... Y'see, I have not been living there since the middle of June, but still paying rent while I had my new place fixed up and readied. Mice which the cat had kept in check until July 13 took over.... My furniture was moved 9/14 and then I rented a second, smaller U-haul truck on 9/24. My rent was paid through 9/30, but she wanted in early to get the carpet removed and have tile installed. I did my best to get things removed by 9/17, missed that date and she conceded in moving the date to 9/24, I worked at it until Sunday 9/25 at midnight before I crashed and drove home an hour and fifteen minutes away. She gave directions to the crew to "sort" but I guess what I would save and they thought was worth anything were worlds apart. (That is a huge part of the problem - I save too much. Plus I went into a tailspin when my sister died two years ago and I received all of her furniture and household goods. Sane people were horrified at the clutter.)
Monday night after work, I did go dumpster diving to try to recover a few items. It was so dispiriting I gave up.
I've decided to consider the situation as if it were a structure fire; I have a whole lot more than folks who suffered the loss of their homes and everything in 'em through natural disaster.
That stinks and I can totally emphasize...after my dad died my mom packed up what she wanted and left...her and dad were "collectors' and then I moved in...ignored it for 10 years and now under certain circumstances had to move and it's very overwhelming to say the least. I like your attitude though and thinking of it as a fire and you still have some of your stuff. I actually had a friend who's house was burned down from a lightening storm...lost her belongings...most of them at least...and her pets. So hard to imagine for young kids and a family to go through. Amazing events transpired though through it all....enough to bring a fire man to his knees and start weeping and amaze those of us that heard about these things.
I enjoy your adventures.
Ahh, but "left behind" isn't exactly what they were.... Y'see, I have not been living there since the middle of June, but still paying rent while I had my new place fixed up and readied. Mice which the cat had kept in check until July 13 took over.... My furniture was moved 9/14 and then I rented a second, smaller U-haul truck on 9/24. My rent was paid through 9/30, but she wanted in early to get the carpet removed and have tile installed. I did my best to get things removed by 9/17, missed that date and she conceded in moving the date to 9/24, I worked at it until Sunday 9/25 at midnight before I crashed and drove home an hour and fifteen minutes away. She gave directions to the crew to "sort" but I guess what I would save and they thought was worth anything were worlds apart. (That is a huge part of the problem - I save too much. Plus I went into a tailspin when my sister died two years ago and I received all of her furniture and household goods. Sane people were horrified at the clutter.)
Monday night after work, I did go dumpster diving to try to recover a few items. It was so dispiriting I gave up.
I've decided to consider the situation as if it were a structure fire; I have a whole lot more than folks who suffered the loss of their homes and everything in 'em through natural disaster.
That stinks and I can totally emphasize...after my dad died my mom packed up what she wanted and left...her and dad were "collectors' and then I moved in...ignored it for 10 years and now under certain circumstances had to move and it's very overwhelming to say the least. I like your attitude though and thinking of it as a fire and you still have some of your stuff. I actually had a friend who's house was burned down from a lightening storm...lost her belongings...most of them at least...and her pets. So hard to imagine for young kids and a family to go through. Amazing events transpired though through it all....enough to bring a fire man to his knees and start weeping and amaze those of us that heard about these things.
I enjoy your adventures.