That would probably be Beekissed's post. The OP can make this cockerel respect her, but getting him to respect others, especially a toddler, is going to be much more difficult.There was a thread I saw just the other day about how to take care of a roo who thought he was gonna run the coop. I can't remember who posted it but it makes total sense. You have to make him know that YOU are the boss and it included using a switch to do so. Basically you make that rooster know that when you say jump, he'll do it and as high as he can cuz he knows you rule the roost no matter what.
Pushing a rooster to the floor or hanging him upside down for a sec doesn't really mean anything to them, apparently. You have to "speak" in their language per say. It also said you never walk AROUND a chicken, you always walk THROUGH them and never show fear, cuz that's how "top rooster" would act.
I'll have to see if I can find that thread now cuz the situation was VERY similar to yours