I handle my roosters as babies and until they are well fledged and then it is hands off. I want them to know that if I have to handle them I will, that is my right as their owner and they might as well get used to the fact. They are not pets. I just finished running down and catching one of my Welsummer roosters so I could put him in the main pen and take out one of the junior Welly/Buff O cross cockerels. When my roosters see me coming to catch them they run for their lives. It means they have either 1, done something to tic me off and are about to be chastised greatly 2, about to have some noxious medicine forced down their throats or 3, about to be separated from their beloved hens. Those are the only 3 instances when I handle my roosters.
I have to agree with oldhenlikesdogs.
When I was first nosing around BYC I found post by a very wise person who said: Do not make pets out of your roosters. Make pets out of your hens. Roosters are around for two purposes only. To protect the hens and to procreate the species.
But I seriously think that if people would just get over the high expectation that every rooster that pops his unsuspecting head out of his shell is going to be the best pet rooster since Lassie saved Timmy when he fell down the well, more roosters would be happily taking care of their flock of hens instead of doing the back stroke in a crock pot.
No, I do not advocate keeping the human aggressive rooster, especially when kids are involved. But then that is why fencing and pens are created. If you as an adult cannot enter a pen or coop without having Buster the Rooster swooping down on you like a hungry Pteradactyl. And if you do not have the desire or the ability to work with Buster or if Buster continues his reign of terror after all attempts to gentle him fail, then by all means, crock pot time.
There are as stated thousands of good, gentle flock masters out there looking for homes. If you have to separate Buster's head from his neck do so without feeling guilty. After all, first and foremost we were put on this earth to have dominion over the animals, not the other way around. But please do remember that there are good boys out there who will respect you and take care of your hens, if you so choose to have one.
IMHO my flock would be pretty boring if I didn't have a rooster or two driving me to distraction on a regular basis, but then, that is me and my choice.