Chicken poppy
Fashionably late
This is a great story, i do the same with my rooster. However, the unfortunate part is doing this will lead many roosters to being worse. I did this and actually had to get rid of mine because he was to far gone. The thing i am confused about, however, is how you say you don’t play dominant and submissive roles when chickens do that exactly and have a pecking order unlike most animals, i find at-least a little bit of that is necessary to a aggressive rooster. You not backing down is you not submitting, so it is in-fact needed.Welcome. I am always on the opposite side of aggressive rooster advice, but, that is what is good about this community; we can disagree and go on...and people can make their own decisions. I had somewhat the same situation as you. I have an awesome rooster that really does care about the hens, protects them, and puts them before himself, but he was attacking my husband, me and my 17-year old grandson. My husband decided he wanted to do the "I am the dominant male" taming; but the rooster still doesn't like him. He only doesn't attack my husband when he is looking at him. I did the other approach, I protective geared up and let him attack me and didn't move and just talked to him with baby talk. The next time, I protective geared up but didn't really need it. I say hi to him first and tell him how proud I am of him and how he takes care of the hens. I give him treats and food first even if he will not eat it until the hens are done. When I go to handle a hen, I make eye contact with him and tell him its going to be OK and I won't hurt his hen(s). He knows I recognize he has a job to do and I try not to get in his way. I have formed a friendship with him instead of playing the dominant/submissive role. This was 6-months ago. Everyday, when I let him out of the coop he rubs up against my leg and talks to me. He sits on my lap and talks to me, but he is always on watch for hawks. When I am working, he jumps up on the deck box and talks to me. I have another rooster who is not as good with the hens but doesn't really attack me too often - when he tries to...he has a thing about footwear, Milo (my rooster friend) takes him down in about 2-seconds.
So a message to OP: Balance yourself, don’t be hostile but don’t be to sweet. Some roosters you might get lucky and they will turn nice, others not. It’s important he knows that your not submitting, and that he also knows you aren’t being aggressive towards him.