Yes, which is a nice segue to....I never explained my user name. Its so boring I'm not even going to bore you with the story, except to say that because I knew what it meant, it never occurred to me how it would be read by others. More than one person has assumed I was a guy because they thought it was "he-chicken". Last time I looked, I'm not a dudeAh yes, the ever handy bra bator. You poor men folk don't know what you're missing![]()

I've thought a lot about changing it. But a) I've submitted so many posts under this user name by now that I think it might confuse some people and b) the name I really want to use, I can't because I've used it all over the web and found that an ex is using it to cyber stalk me and I don't want him to find me here, and I can't think of something that describes me better (that's how I ended up with the current user name in the first place). Hey - maybe I should make that the next contest - "Help HEChicken choose a new user name and win......something".