Seen a cougar today.

I had stopped dyeing my hair. Then my mom moved into an assisted living facility. The woman my mom refers to as "Goofy Ellen" kept referring to me as my mom's sister. The dye job is back. I don't mind looking MY age, but being repeatedly mistaken for my 80-year-old mother's sister was a little much.

No cougar here. I like experienced. Young males are hormones with legs, and tend to think only with the little head...although you could raise 'em up the way you wanted...hmmmmmm.

Probably too much work, and the older model wouldn't be cooperative. Guess I'll stick with my old guy.
 
Hair dye...

You know, I'm really a pretty vain Spook. I could
totally get into dying my hair...If I had any hair left.

Those that know me, know I don't have but three hairs
left. I'm afraid dye would look more like I painted my head.

But me being an "older model", I know a lot of other "older
models". We are very cooperative, unless you expect us
to actually do something. That's pretty much where we draw
the line.

Spook...the hair-less model
 
I'll take an older guy anyday.. :bun
I have no patience for young pups anymore.
 
I'll take an older guy anyday..
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I have no patience for young pups anymore.
a shame
 
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Hiya Boyd...longtime no see!



My older model is trained up good.
He puts up with me, and lets me sleep in sometimes.
He even lets the chickens out.

I have a teenaged boy at home.
I have enough of the more attitude than sense. I don't need it in my social life.
Maybe we women folk just grow up faster than you male types...
 
I get that there is a gender bias with the older woman/younger man thing...but there is also clearly a bias when potential abuse is witnessed. Only the poster seems to recognize or address the fact that this PERSON is being abused by his "spouse" (married or not they are in a committed relationship). What if this were a 25 year old girl being put down by a much older man??! What would the focus be? I hasten to wager that the focus would be on the abuse and not gender bias.

Poster: If you think he's being abused, is there anything you can do? Is there anything you want to do? I know there are options for women in abusive relationships, but there doesn't seem to be much for men in abusive relationships... perhaps child protective services could be called since there is a child in the home?? But then would they be more harm than good?
 

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