I think this might help with the concepts... Male chickens are like female humans- you can think of both of them as having XX. Female chickens are like male humans, think of that like XY.
Now, when you mix the male RIR and the female BR, you are doing this...
X-RIR X-RIR mates with X-BR Y-BR
Still with me?
X-RIR X-BR = baby male sex link
X-RIR Y-BR= baby female sex link
OK. So those are the babies that do have sex link colors.
So then, we have the question of what if we swap parent types around?
X-BR X-BR mated with X-RIR Y-RIR
X-BR X-RIR= same as the male sex link, just in reverse order.
X-BR Y-RIR= not the same as the female sex link, therefore not a female sex link, that new, pesky X-BR is probably what is driving the barred color in the backwards cross female chicks that SpeckledHen talks about.
Any questions?
-MTchick
Now, when you mix the male RIR and the female BR, you are doing this...
X-RIR X-RIR mates with X-BR Y-BR
Still with me?
X-RIR X-BR = baby male sex link
X-RIR Y-BR= baby female sex link
OK. So those are the babies that do have sex link colors.
So then, we have the question of what if we swap parent types around?
X-BR X-BR mated with X-RIR Y-RIR
X-BR X-RIR= same as the male sex link, just in reverse order.
X-BR Y-RIR= not the same as the female sex link, therefore not a female sex link, that new, pesky X-BR is probably what is driving the barred color in the backwards cross female chicks that SpeckledHen talks about.
Any questions?

-MTchick