I don't mind the questions at all.
In my experience the ganders are actually the better of the two parents. My gander Tuffy watched over his mate the whole time she was sitting and took over much of their care as soon as they no longer needed mama's warmth all the time.
Where I ran into problems is when my baby ganders grew up. Two of the gosling I kept to start with turned out to be ganders. The one never had an issue with his dad Tuffy, the other made the mistake of trying to mate his mom. Tuffy hated him after that and exiled him from the flock. That's why I gave the younger one to my friend. While ganders will protect their mates, especially when they are sitting, both goose and gander pretty much can handle themselves when attacked.
By the way I have chickens too (and ducks). I have yet to have a rooster that wasn't good with chicks. When you stop and think about it, the rooster has a vested interest in continuing his bloodline (he doesn't have to know that the chicks aren't always his, as in the case of purchased eggs), so he wants the offspring to survive too. That may not be the case with all roosters, but has been with every one I have had.