oh, I hope she comes back. And regarding the letter, hopefully your friend's situation gets resolved. Speaking of elderly parents I am in ca helping mine so these ducks are a great distraction for me.I am a psychiatrist, I'm totally used to having people drop problems in my lap, so I rewrote the letter using my knowledge of the roommate's history and behavior patterns, so that the letter was venom free and very understanding, but remained firm that he had to leave. If he were a patient, I could have charged him a ridiculous amount of money for me to steer him in the correct direction as far as writing the letter went, and would never have to see it or touch it myself. I'm everybody's mother, from baby birds, to my 84 year old mother with dementia, to my nearly 58 year old friend with the disrespectful housemate, so I end up mitigating a lot of potential social disasters...
Penny the pheasant still hasn't returned, despite her mate calling for her all day. She will likely be back in a few days if the ground stays mostly covered, because there is food here... My husband tried to console the cock: "For the effort we are putting into her, we could raise up another 50 just like her for you! You are better off without her!" Yeah, even the pheasant cock is getting therapy...