Re: SIL
Weeeeeel, as we said in Texas all those years I was there.............
Even down deep she's shallow!.
We could be talking about my sisters here- and I just try to speak softly and not hold it against them. It doesn't always work though-
I feel sympathy for them, because they're rarely truly happy.
Weird trick I have learned- when someone starts on a rant, like SIL did, keep lowering the volume of your voice. They get so focused on hearing what's being said that they start quieting down. Doesn't cure insensitivity, but helps shorten the ugly episode.
Please tell your Mom that I would be proud to have her as my Mom! And she must have done a fine job raising YOU!
Weeeeeel, as we said in Texas all those years I was there.............
Even down deep she's shallow!.
We could be talking about my sisters here- and I just try to speak softly and not hold it against them. It doesn't always work though-

Weird trick I have learned- when someone starts on a rant, like SIL did, keep lowering the volume of your voice. They get so focused on hearing what's being said that they start quieting down. Doesn't cure insensitivity, but helps shorten the ugly episode.
Please tell your Mom that I would be proud to have her as my Mom! And she must have done a fine job raising YOU!