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Lsky said:
Hey listen, being chubby or fat is okay. It doesn't make you any less of a good person. And eating well and exercising doesnt have to be difficult or boring. I mean, being happy is more important than looking good in skinny jeans, and you can be happy. You've just gotta stick it out. You're way too hard on yourself.
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I know, but I get a lot of comments about my weight. Bad comments. *sigh*
I've tried eating completely healthy before, but you'd be surprised how many people wave sweet foods in front of me. Plus, depression/stress/anxiety drags away all hope and motivation, so I usually just give up and eat the sweet foods. :/
It's all so difficult. (-( That's why I've decided to just eat a ton of fatty foods, and give up on everything. XD
 
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TamingMaster said:
I know, but I get a lot of comments about my weight. Bad comments. *sigh*
I've tried eating completely healthy before, but you'd be surprised how many people wave sweet foods in front of me. Plus, depression/stress/anxiety drags away all hope and motivation, so I usually just give up and eat the sweet foods. :/
It's all so difficult. (-( That's why I've decided to just eat a ton of fatty foods, and give up on everything. XD
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No, no, you're not giving up. And screw those guys, screw anyone who has ever picked on you or said something horrible to you about your weight. What do you want? You've gotta just focus on it, focus on it and ignore everything else. It's okay that you're not perfect, nobody is.
And, uh. Yup this is me being serious for once. Does it suit me? I'm not sure if I like the colour.
 
Lsky said:
No, no, you're not giving up. And screw those guys, screw anyone who has ever picked on you or said something horrible to you about your weight. What do you want? You've gotta just focus on it, focus on it and ignore everything else. It's okay that you're not perfect, nobody is.
And, uh. Yup this is me being serious for once. Does it suit me? I'm not sure if I like the colour.
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I've tried to diet eight times, and I've tried exercising plenty more, but I always end up giving up. Always.
I wish it was that easy, just forgetting. But, when it's coming from people you trust and people you're always around, well... *sigh*
I just want to be healthy and happy. But, I give up too easy, because I'm wwweeeeaaaaakkkkkk. And, I have so little motivation nowadays.

I think it's good to be serious sometimes, but not all the time. :3
 
TamingMaster said:
I've tried to diet eight times, and I've tried exercising plenty more, but I always end up giving up. Always.
I wish it was that easy, just forgetting. But, when it's coming from people you trust and people you're always around, well... *sigh*
I just want to be healthy and happy. But, I give up too easy, because I'm wwweeeeaaaaakkkkkk. And, I have so little motivation nowadays.

I think it's good to be serious sometimes, but not all the time. :3
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Diets are a bunch of crap, and I don't like using that language. If you don't get enough calories, enough carbs, then you won't have the energy to exercise. And since most self proclaimed dieticians think carbs are evil, you've probably been on low carb or calorie restricted diets. I understand the motivation thing, but just think about what you want most in the world. Do you want to travel? Go to uni/college? Become a nun? Lol you get my point. Just think about it.
 
Lsky said:
Diets are a bunch of crap, and I don't like using that language. If you don't get enough calories, enough carbs, then you won't have the energy to exercise. And since most self proclaimed dieticians think carbs are evil, you've probably been on low carb or calorie restricted diets. I understand the motivation thing, but just think about what you want most in the world. Do you want to travel? Go to uni/college? Become a nun? Lol you get my point. Just think about it.
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No, I just wanted to cut sugar and junk food out of my diet. I was going to eat veg, meats, fruits. I can't eat dairy, so...
I can't do any of that, I'm poor. XD All I want is to be happy, but I can't even have that because of these stupid mental health problems caused by stupid health problems. =,=
My life is such a mess. XD
 
TamingMaster said:
No, I just wanted to cut sugar and junk food out of my diet. I was going to eat veg, meats, fruits. I can't eat dairy, so...
I can't do any of that, I'm poor. XD All I want is to be happy, but I can't even have that because of these stupid mental health problems caused by stupid health problems. =,=
My life is such a mess. XD
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Well, I'm really not supposed to talk about nutrition. But I don't eat any animal products, and plant foods are the cheapest, healthiest foods around.
All anyone really wants is to be happy, but what I mean is; I want to travel, I want to have experiences, I want things, and I keep that in my mind when I'm at my lowest. It reminds me why I get up in the morning. (Or night, my sleep schedule right now is messed up.)
 
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I maybe don't have the mental illnesses you do, but life's a struggle for everyone sometimes. And you've just gotta keep swimming, there's not much else you can do sometimes.
 
Shannon, you also have to remember that you are still growing and, in order to do that, you have to gain weight. Your value isn't determined by others, so don't allow rude comments to bring you down.
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