I am so beyond furious. We were getting ready to move Dawn when she went up against her crate snarling and barking. Fiona reacted and started doing the same on the outside of the crate. I had Fiona's collar and was slowly backing her off, I'm not strong enough to haul her around, but she does listen, she backs off 1 step at a time as I talk to her and pull on her collar. My husband decided we weren't moving fast enough and tried to grab Fiona from the front, she bit him predictably. He made a horrible face, and raised his hand. I shouted NO, and stuck my left hand between him and Fiona. I have a jammed thumb from the force of the hit, he did not strike Fiona. He knows better than to grab any dog from the front in that kind of situation, I know I taught him better than that. Plus I had her under control, she was backing and obeying me, Dawn was in her crate. If anything he should have done something with her, like step between them breaking their eye contact, which I did tell him to do. Instead he grabs Fiona shoulder and tries to push her backwards. Of coarse he got bit, the dogs were locked on each other, he made no noise and grabbed her.
I have also repeadley told him to never strike my kids or dogs when he was angry. A spanking is one thing, hitting while angry is not acceptable. I am getting ready to take Fiona out of the house for a walk, I need to get her away from Dawn and my hubby at this point. Maybe the walk will help me cool off too.
But on a good note, Dawn was moved without further incident. And Fiona is safely back behind a gate in my sons room away from the living room were Dawn is. The whole reason this incident happened is my kids forgot to close the gate.
It sounds like your husband doesn't like or understand dogs.