I've had had 6 or so breeds now raised to adult in my mixed flock and the wyandotte were the most standoffish of them all. The only time one willingly came up to me was when she was laying her first egg. She kept running out of the coop, past the rooster, and jumping up on the bench beside me squawking. Then running back to the coop. Eventually I ruffled her back and she ran in and laid her egg with no further fuss.
The wyandottes were great freerangers though. Always on lookout. If you want a friendly lap chicken maybe try speckled Sussex. They are food motivated and always under my feet. I just got faverolles chicks cause I heard they are very sweet but they are too young to know how they will be as adults.
As for hand raised vs hen raised- hand raised will be friendlier because you handle them probably daily. So cute how can you not! But hen raised will integrate into the older flock much much easier. Effortless for me the 2 times I have gone this route