How her story goes, never heard from school yet.. Her and her 2 friends were trying to catch a frog.. Older kids came up and told them to stop.. Little kids, my dd and friends kept going... Big kids, starting throwing grass at little kids.. They all yelled at them to stop.. Big kid, a boy came and bent back DD fingers, at witch point little kids ran for moniter.. Montier asked DD to show her what kids did this.. So DD gets off bus, and says there should be note, blah ,blah, blah happened today.. No note, no nothing... So I am upset cause I only heard one side.. She said she knows the boy, from Summerday care... He's a grade 2 or 3 What's going on here.. DH says teach her to kick him where it counts, the only way she won't get picked on is to stick up for herself? What do you think? I grew up in a very small town, where I was realated to half the kids in school.. You didn't mess with us, cause we all have an older cousin ready to kick butt.. I know this sounds bad, but know one messed with us.. So now my kids are not realted to half the town.. And this kid hurt her.. I sure wanna teach her, this is how you put him down.. He won't mess with you, if you do..... Ahh what's the right way.. I told her she did the right thing and told teacher... And left it at that Their only SK... Wow does ones motherly instecnts kick in when someone picks on your child!!