So update on my Dad:
He has stopped chemo and all other treatments, and is losing himself to the cancer. While it wasn't a possibility that he would beat it, we had hoped for more time. He is losing memory, he has a twitch, lost the ability to walk 2 months ago, and is mumbling badly. He was trying to get me to take him home from the nursing center today, but he can't walk. He got really upset with me, but there is nothing I can do about it, we don't have the ability to care for him there, and he won't remember it tomorrow. It hurt a lot that he was mad at me, even though he won't have any memory of it an hour later. He is sleeping poorly, he eats well sometimes, and not others. He was my superhero as a kid, and my superhero is now facing his kryptonite, and there isn't a **** thing I can do about it.
We did get Mom and Grandma moved north to Olympia to a retirement center, which is better for both of them, as they can't take care of the homes they resided in, and I can't take care of both of those either and work full time. We have mandatory overtime at work, and I've been moving Mom and Grandma, 66 years and 89 years young north, and it's been a struggle. Oh and forgot my sister too, who has a mental disorder that prevents her from being a solid human being to put it nicely. She moved into a new apartment, and is giving my mother grief for various reasons.
To all of you out there struggling like me, keep your head up, there are more people out there wanting to help you than you know. I certainly found that out. Happy Holidays, or as in my household Merry Christmas.
He has stopped chemo and all other treatments, and is losing himself to the cancer. While it wasn't a possibility that he would beat it, we had hoped for more time. He is losing memory, he has a twitch, lost the ability to walk 2 months ago, and is mumbling badly. He was trying to get me to take him home from the nursing center today, but he can't walk. He got really upset with me, but there is nothing I can do about it, we don't have the ability to care for him there, and he won't remember it tomorrow. It hurt a lot that he was mad at me, even though he won't have any memory of it an hour later. He is sleeping poorly, he eats well sometimes, and not others. He was my superhero as a kid, and my superhero is now facing his kryptonite, and there isn't a **** thing I can do about it.
We did get Mom and Grandma moved north to Olympia to a retirement center, which is better for both of them, as they can't take care of the homes they resided in, and I can't take care of both of those either and work full time. We have mandatory overtime at work, and I've been moving Mom and Grandma, 66 years and 89 years young north, and it's been a struggle. Oh and forgot my sister too, who has a mental disorder that prevents her from being a solid human being to put it nicely. She moved into a new apartment, and is giving my mother grief for various reasons.
To all of you out there struggling like me, keep your head up, there are more people out there wanting to help you than you know. I certainly found that out. Happy Holidays, or as in my household Merry Christmas.