Ahhh the "H" word, had to wait for that one for a long time. Since I was 13, I had the most horrible cycles. Painful, sickly and disableing. Had to be on the pill since I was 16 yrs old. By the time I was 40 nothing was working anymore and I was going to lose my job (being out sick everymonth) so I insisted something be done...When they checked me out with ultra scans one week there was nothing, the next week there were huge fibriods
the Dr's gave me "options", when he said the "H" word he acted like it was the worst thing to offer me... It was the only word I wanted to hear! I had fibroid tumors that were so large (grapefruit) that they couldn't pull them through vaginally. I had to have the full on surgery. It was the happiest day of my life!
Recovery was long, 6 wks off work. I had horrible constipation from the pain meds. (dried Aloe caplets are a great natural remedy for constipation) I have numbness around the scar and have trouble wearing low rise jeans. They were able to leave my "girls" but took everything else. The only problem I've had is pain at the scar site, during "activities" with my DH, but that is diminishing over time. (and it is SOOOOOOOOoo nice not being sick or in pain all the time... and not dealing with the monthly stuff
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My personal experience made this an easy choice for me - I hated that part of my body and was glad to see it go! I wasn't even able to have kids because of it.. so it's not like it was doing me any favors being there.
I know that part of my body is NOT what defines who I am.
I hope your surgery goes well for you!