So....talk about.....CANCER SUPPORT THREAD !!

[deerman]

Well I just got back from the Doc today...they had been running lots of test.

The Cancer is back, She said it would be a long shot to cure it.......

tHANKS FOR THOSE WHO HAVE BEEN CONCERD...

 

[3goodeggs]

Oh, Dear Deerman, I am so sorry. I have had you in my thoughts and was concerned that we had not heard from you.
My mom was a long shot and that was 11 years ago. They gave her six months. Hope is powerful medicine and as Heatherlynn said so is love. I will continue to think good things for you and keep you in my prayers.
Try to stay positive.

 

[Lunachick]

deerman - a longshot is still a shot! We're here for you.........what's your first name? (you can say here or PM it) I'll need it for sending positive vibes your way.

Are you going to do treatments?

 

[Damummis]

Everyone is in my thoughts. Deerman, we are here for you. The effects of positive thinking is an amazing thing.

I have been trying to hone my thought influence skills. I am starting to see results. Case in point. (disclaimer- please don't think me a bad mom. It really was funny)

This past Sat. I took DD#2 (14) to MY stylist for a hair cut and makeup lesson. My daughter is trying to break into the modeling industry. She has the look, ambition, and she is no slouch. Anyway, later that day she was being down right nasty to her older sister (16). As I sat watching what was going on I thought to myself, "Wow, this little girl needs to learn humility. A humble model, that would be a first." "Hey mom, this makeup makes me look AMAZING." She said pulling me out of my thoughts. "Yes it does, but you have to have the beautiful attitude too honey. Can you work on that with your sister please?" Sucking her teeth and groaning like a typical teen she replies "Really, she is a total "witch", I hate her." This really got my goat. I just did what for you today? Man, she needs to be knocked down a few pegs!!! "Hey Boo, can you feed the cat?" "Oh, fine." Man, she need to be knocked down a few pegs!! And no sooner did I think it the 2nd time , the cat food can totally backfires and sprays juice all over her face.

I had to just leave the room cause I couldn't control the laughter. I know I'm bad.

Of course she grossed right out and had to wash her beautiful face.

See positive thinking. Now if I could only think the chickens water to thaw. I guess I have to go do that myself.

 

[deerman]

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Yes maybe a operation, more chemo...not sure yet....Burtis or some call me Burt.

 

[jjthink]

Burt, everyone, ....sending lots of good wishes.

JJ

 

[CoyoteMagic]

Hey Burt we are all here for you. Mine has come back too. Like Luna said, it's a shot.

I know it's hard not to get down about it coming back. My husband cried, but I just got ticked. How dare this come back into our lives after all we have been through already. Maybe I should be the one crying, but I'm afraid if I do, I won't stop and that will be the end of me. That little toe-hold of doubt that I (we) will survive this is all that this Bi*ch of a disease needs to take hold. So I keep on being ticked, some folks saying that I'm the "B" not the disease. (that is true sometimes, lol) I can't give it that hold it wants. My brother did, so did my Grandma and a few others, they are no longer here. I refuse to do that to myself, to my husband, or to my momma who nurse my brother and grandma to the end.

Take my hand and we will fight together. We have this army of friends to support us, how could we loose.

 

[deerman]

Thanks all, I also lost my brother and mother to this cancer crap....don't even want to talk to my family . That worry me more, my family ,Sons and grandkids Don't want them have to see me go thru this..I can deal with it....but don;t want them to go thru all this, i can't stand to see the hurt in their faces. Know my sons would try to take care of my birds , but I can't put that work on them....they are no even birds people , only my 5 yr old grandson he love them


I join this forum the time i started chemo. It and the member help me thru those times.

 

[ozark hen]

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Burt, I understand what you are saying but my sister recently told me that she was a "private person" and if she ever got cancer she would never tell anyone. If she ever did get it ... I would want to do everything in my power to help her through it, not be told after the fact. Just one angle for you to look at as it is totally your decision, only you know your family. God love you as you will be added to my list of those I pray for and send postive thoughts to each day.

We are here for you so please don't think you are alone, any of you.

 

[CoyoteMagic]

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Karma is such a wonderful thing, lol