so, talk to me about adding a second dog to the household

patandchickens

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Input of whatever sort is welcome from everyone (but I am particularly interested in comments from people who are, like me, kind of overanalytical think-of-everything-that-can-go-wrong-and-what-you'd-do-about-it types) on the logistics of adding a second dog to the household.

We've had Russell (yellow lab, albeit a very lightly-built one) for almost 6 months now. He is doing SUPER, will be starting a third obedience class soon (not so much for learning obedience as such, which he is quite the star pupil at, but for getting him more relaxed and focused in a class environment) with the intention of starting agility this spring. He luvs hanging around with us and playing with us and learning new things and all that... but I feel bad that he doesn't have another actual dog to play with. (There is no dog park around here, and we don't have suitable neighbors or friends whose dogs would make good playmates).

So, I think we should get Russell a dog of his own
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How different is this going to be, having two dogs instead of just one, particularly in terms of dog behavior in the house? Are they likely to egg each other into doing increasingly naughty things? (Russell has no major bad habits at present, as long as we keep him supervised when he's chewing on the cat [the cat in question LIKES it but I get nervous when his entire skull is in Russie's mouth] and keep the kitchen garbage latched and the kids' toys picked up. And he's crated at night and when we're out of the house for a while. New dog would be crated too.) Are they likely to have constant growly arguments over who gets to chew which nylabone? How common/likely are those sorts of problems when you add a second dog? What else am I not anticipating?

(FWIW, whatever dog we get will be from a shelter or rescue, probably older puppy or very young adult, hopefully somewhere in the 20-30 lb range, nonfluffy, reasonably active but not crazy-caffeinated-nonstop, and VERY kidsafe and cat-safe. Has to get along well with Russell, obviously! And preferably something that could do agility or other things without too awful many challenges to overcome, i.e. not really shoppin' for a beagle LOL Yes, I realize that some of my 'wish list' is kind of in opposition to some other parts of it, but I figure if I look at enough dogs, mutt and otherwise, SOMEthing will work out, even if it is not a dog that follows a typical breed description. I know I can't expect to get as lucky again as I did with Russell but there *are* plenty of perfectly nice userfriendly dogs out there.)

I just want to make sure I've thought this through and know what I'm getting into, and have a plan for dealing with reasonably-likely problems that may crop up. (Or, ideally, avoiding them in the first place!)

Thanks for any comments, advice, anecdotes, whatever,

Pat
 
Sweetie, it's kind of like adding a second child. Aaaand that's about all I can tell you.
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Sorry.

Generally if you're really happy with one and want to add to the joy, it works out. If you're having one solely for the other or because everybody says it's the right next step, you tend to not be as satisfied.

For what it's worth, I think you'll do fine.
 
We got a second dog after we had our first for about 9 months. Then our son was born and we felt badly for our first dog so we decided to get her a friend. For us it was the best choice ever. We adopted a dog from the humane society that was about 6 mos younger than our dog - a different breed to, but we brought our first dog to the society to test them in a room together. Perfect match. They pretty much do everything together 6 years later.

On the flip side...

Some friends of ours did the same thing a number of years back and we almost ended up taking their 2nd dog as a 3rd because their dogs would not get along. Eventually it worked out but this second dog is heck in a handbasket. Needs a muzzle whenever men come to the house, has to be crated while the other is free to roam, etc. They've tried obedience classes and the like, but to no avail. So they just work with her as best as they can and hope one day it works out.

You're just going to have to take the time to search for a dog with manners like Russell. Don't just grab the first pretty face you see - take the time to have them interact before you bring someone else home.
 
We have 3 and love it
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We have had the youngest 2 for just over a year now and got them as puppies. Our 5 yr old is the boss... of course
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When we first got our youngest the oldest would run around and get all the toys and put them in a pile in front of her and hoard them... but we have gotten over that they all share now! We have only had 2 squabbles. One was between our 5 yr old and our husky over a bone and that was just recently and that one shocked me because they have never had an issue with each other before and we haven't had one since. The other one is the puppies got in a "fight" out in the yard, they were playing and I think they just got mad at each other and decided to make it serious. We just let them duke that one out and they quit after about 5 seconds of it!
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Otherwise they all love each other
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They don't egg each other on and it gives them someone to play with and get the excess energy out
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Our husky is outside when we are gone or he would shred everything in our entire house but our retreiver and older lab are loose in house when we are gone and they do great! With being together we were able to get to where we didn't need crates anymore.

River Otter said it correctly, it is like adding another child to your house! I wouldn't trade my 3 for anything in the world. And if you think it is interesting to have one.... wait till you have more than that and see what kind antics they come up with !
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I guess the only thing I would warn you off is they say when you have 2 together they tend to run more, BUT if you watch your dogs and make sure they don't even step a foot out of the yard except on a leash you shouldn't have any problems
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I think the most important and often overlooked aspect of getting a 2nd (or 3rd, or 4th, etc) dog is being sure they get along before the new addition moves in. This involves allowing them to meet on neutral territory and watching their body language. They need to be happy to be in each other's company - big tail wags, play behavior, and there are several other things to look for (Jaimee dog trainer gives great info on these behaviors!). Just imagine having a new roommate for life that you just can't stand to be around - sharing your food, sunny spots, the love of your loved ones, etc. I've been pretty lucky with new additions for the most part, but I did have to re-home one rescue I brought home because he wanted to kill my GP. That was a huge pain in the butt, having to keep them on opposite sides of the door, etc.
Once you know the newbie is accepted, I say go for it...but then, we have 6 dogs!
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The companionship might be the best thing ever for Russell. I'm hooked on a dog training show on TV, and they always talk about dogs who do things like get into the garbage as bored and needing more exercise.

Maybe I just have laid back dogs, but I've never had trouble adding a new one. They are usually mutts. I've never used a dog crate. My last two were labs or retrievers or some mix thereof, and lived with the current one, maybe a spaniel/dachsund/chihuahua mix. They all know who the pack leader is.
 
I would normally recommend to just one dog for someone asking, but being that you seem to have enough attention to give Russel not one, but three obedience classes, I suppose you likely be fine.

My two dogs I got at the same time and they bonded with each other first, then their masters later. I feel more like I'm their parent then best friends. I wish I would have thought it out more before making the choice. They play all day long, they play all night on full moons. They work together and play us like fools. They were both great at obedience training learned everything the first time and then made up new tricks to show us, then they trained us. They send us out to work to make money to buy them food and treats!

I love both dogs, but really I'd rather have just one of them. I miss the closeness of one dog.
 
I just wanted to add to what moabite said in case you get the wrong impression. Adding another dog will not make russel less attached to you and your human family, getting 2 dogs at the same time often causes the dogs to bond more closely to eachother.

Adding a second dog, unless you make a point on spending alot of one on one time with the new pup it will most likely become more attached to Russel than to you. This isn't nescesarily a bad thing.... but just so your aware.
 
So much of it really depends on the personalities of the two dogs in question. We've successfully had several different dog combinations of duos; trios were harder, for us, but it was mostly due to the personality of the third dog.

I wouldn't recommend getting two puppies at the same time, as Moabite said, because they tend to bond with each other first and the most strongly. But with Russel being older and firmly bonded to you, that won't be a problem.
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In my experience, the only thing two dogs will be more likely to egg each other on to do is to go exploring if they are left unsupervised; it seems that where one dog might be reluctant to go off alone, two will be happy to galivant about the countryside if possible. (Obviously, we don't let that happen.) Things like getting into the garbage or chewing up the couch cushions seem to happen more often with one bored dog than two busy buddies.
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Agreed. I always had one dog. Then I had two. The first one passed and the second was lonely so we added a second dog a second time. Never again. I prefer just having one dog. One dog is much closer to you.
 

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