It's so frustrating to me when someone complains and complains and complains about their situation, but does nothing about it to make life better for themselves. I hate it even more when you make helpful suggestions to that person and all they do is make up excuses as to why they can't do that. I realize sometimes there really are deep holes that are difficult to get out of, but if you are going to complain that you have no money and can't find a job, definitely don't tell me you turned down job offers IN TOWN because they were "below you". Ugh, some people.