I just stumbled across this and your blog. I am so sorry you are dealing with this. I would say don't lose face in all people but honestly most kinda suck. There are the treasured nice ones though so have a bit of hope. I would not let this lady stop you from doing what you want. Get a privacy fence up as soon as you can and then just pretend no one lives back there. You can even plant stuff to create more of a buffer. She might be crazy or she could just be two faced. No way really to tell. Its just better to avoid her.
We had a similar neighbor and we actually put in some fast growing plantings to create a bit of privacy. Keep dreaming about property away from everyone. When you reach that goal it will be worth it. We just moved out of town ourselves because having neighbors was just horribly annoying. When you have to get on first name basis with the animal warden and the code guy its gone too far. Just don't let her get you down. It doesn't sound likes its anything you have done or anything about you that caused her to be this way. Your best revenge for this type of thing is to not let it bother you and if anything enjoy your chickens even more than you did before. If it were me I would be putting up stone chickens in the front yard, one of those big brass wind things in the shape of a chicken on the roof, and singing a song about chickens while working in the yard but then I am probably evil so don't do those. Just don't let her trap you in your house and take your enjoyment away. She wins when you do that. Good luck and hugs
We had a similar neighbor and we actually put in some fast growing plantings to create a bit of privacy. Keep dreaming about property away from everyone. When you reach that goal it will be worth it. We just moved out of town ourselves because having neighbors was just horribly annoying. When you have to get on first name basis with the animal warden and the code guy its gone too far. Just don't let her get you down. It doesn't sound likes its anything you have done or anything about you that caused her to be this way. Your best revenge for this type of thing is to not let it bother you and if anything enjoy your chickens even more than you did before. If it were me I would be putting up stone chickens in the front yard, one of those big brass wind things in the shape of a chicken on the roof, and singing a song about chickens while working in the yard but then I am probably evil so don't do those. Just don't let her trap you in your house and take your enjoyment away. She wins when you do that. Good luck and hugs