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I have an auto payment now so maybe nothing for anyone here........
does not bother me too much - I did have an expensive surprise in mind for DD but, looks like that won't happen. Only people that we buy for is DH's Dad, DD, and DH.
I get myself something too usually LOL
I cook and feed my family....if I can I give a little money to my nieces and nephew. Otherwise, food is enough...we are all together and getting along and that is what counts
ETA: no one on my side of the family is under 14 yrs old. We are getting to old to do anything besides eat LOL
Wow, that sounds so simple. Christmas has always been a BIG thing with my family. My Dad spends weeks putting out lights and decorations. He started 2 weeks ago and he will have them on for Thanksgiving. He puts out 200,000+ lights. DH has a big family and my cousins, aunts, uncles etc. still all get together for my Grandma. I've actually cut my Christmas list in half this year and I still shop for 20+ people. My son also has a birthday dec 12 so I shop for that too of course. I usually start shopping in June but this year there just wasn't much money to shop with so I'm running late. And my 7 year old would be most disappointed if Santa forgot him. It's stressful but fun.
I kinda am sooo glad. I am even cutting back on decorating this year. My parents are in their 60s and with Moms arthritis really can't do much now.
There was one Christmas when the family was upset with me..... Nicole & I took off to the beach and stayed for Christmas Eve & Day.
My dad's family is big, and gets together...but I stopped going to that before my grandmother died...I would just go see her on Christmas day. That was always when she would come see my dad & us...then she did that when my daughter was born too
Even after the big family thing on Christmas eve.
DH's family is big...we just kind of stopped going to the dinner there a couple of years after his mom died. We did go last year and I think the year before....but it is mostly food & family - he has an aunt that never married but took care of his grandma and helped with everyone's kids - and everyone gets her something- that is usually the only presents.
I miss the big dinners & get togethers, but even ours with DH's family (brother, dad, neice, nephew, etc) has slacked off. Pop told me I have gotten lazy cause I have not been cooking in a LONG time lol.
I have an auto payment now so maybe nothing for anyone here........

I get myself something too usually LOL
I cook and feed my family....if I can I give a little money to my nieces and nephew. Otherwise, food is enough...we are all together and getting along and that is what counts

ETA: no one on my side of the family is under 14 yrs old. We are getting to old to do anything besides eat LOL
Wow, that sounds so simple. Christmas has always been a BIG thing with my family. My Dad spends weeks putting out lights and decorations. He started 2 weeks ago and he will have them on for Thanksgiving. He puts out 200,000+ lights. DH has a big family and my cousins, aunts, uncles etc. still all get together for my Grandma. I've actually cut my Christmas list in half this year and I still shop for 20+ people. My son also has a birthday dec 12 so I shop for that too of course. I usually start shopping in June but this year there just wasn't much money to shop with so I'm running late. And my 7 year old would be most disappointed if Santa forgot him. It's stressful but fun.
I kinda am sooo glad. I am even cutting back on decorating this year. My parents are in their 60s and with Moms arthritis really can't do much now.
There was one Christmas when the family was upset with me..... Nicole & I took off to the beach and stayed for Christmas Eve & Day.
My dad's family is big, and gets together...but I stopped going to that before my grandmother died...I would just go see her on Christmas day. That was always when she would come see my dad & us...then she did that when my daughter was born too

DH's family is big...we just kind of stopped going to the dinner there a couple of years after his mom died. We did go last year and I think the year before....but it is mostly food & family - he has an aunt that never married but took care of his grandma and helped with everyone's kids - and everyone gets her something- that is usually the only presents.
I miss the big dinners & get togethers, but even ours with DH's family (brother, dad, neice, nephew, etc) has slacked off. Pop told me I have gotten lazy cause I have not been cooking in a LONG time lol.