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TesoroSena said:
The whole point of parenting imo is to get them to understand how to be a good person, and i hope i can teach them enough to know that is not okay. I am also good at reading people and would be able to tell, and again i want them to trust me, and therefore share with me. Fun fact, there is actually psychological reasons behind why kids do these things. My job is a parent is to make sure those reasons don't happen.
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yes and im not saying you should even go through it. just make sure that they know that everything they do is available to you. you can never mention anything. you may not need to. but what if they do something.
TesoroSena said:
If you want what the reasons are i can share.
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yes pls
 
TesoroSena said:
i wont trust my kid fully as they are a kid. but read my post.
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i also dont wanna start beef bc I still wanna be welcome here and have you as a friend, so I'm sorry if what I say is rude. i have super strong opinions and want others to fully consider mine
 
Noraaaaa said:
yes and im not saying you should even go through it. just make sure that they know that everything they do is available to you. you can never mention anything. you may not need to. but what if they do something.

yes pls
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For sending pictures, 95% of kids who do that on a whim are seeking attention they can't get healthily elsewhere.
bullying thing is the same reason. there has NEVER been a kid who bullies just because. All sadists and murderer and bullies all have always had one thing in common, and that is they had a physically or emotionally abusive household. They have a lot of feelings and need to let them out, but can't normally. there is a lot more psychology behind this one but that sums it up a lot.
Why would they buy stuff online if they trusted me enough to ask for it? And my kid is not getting my credit card info or getting a card.
Again, posting bad things is normally caused by neglect. And i should have mentioned this earlier, they wont be allowed to have tiktok, insta, or facebook until fifteen. I havent decided on snap yet.
Noraaaaa said:
im not trying to make u mad and its okay that you are gonna do this but

what if they send pictures on snap. what if they bully kids. what if they buy stuff. what if they post bad things and hide them.
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TesoroSena said:
For sending pictures, 95% of kids who do that on a whim are seeking attention they can't get healthily elsewhere.
bullying thing is the same reason. there has NEVER been a kid who bullies just because. All sadists and murderer and bullies all have always had one thing in common, and that is they had a physically or emotionally abusive household. They have a lot of feelings and need to let them out, but can't normally. there is a lot more psychology behind this one but that sums it up a lot.
Why would they buy stuff online if they trusted me enough to ask for it? And my kid is not getting my credit card info or getting a card.
Again, posting bad things is normally caused by neglect. And i should have mentioned this earlier, they wont be allowed to have tiktok, insta, or facebook until fifteen. I havent decided on snap yet.
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This is so true, If we as parents give the child what they need they will be satisfied and the issues will never start
 
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