Olive oil might be soothing and it's all natural. Bag balm or neosporin I think would be okay...I don't see why not. I tend to go with the natural remedies...have any aloe? The bloody spots might respond well to a little saline solution, just to make sure it's clean. (do saline, let it dry or dry her off with a clean paper towel, and then put something soothing...if all you have is bag balm I think that would work fine, but just don't gob it on)