Sounds about like the conversation (aka direct orders) I had with my hubby last night as he was packing for the week of outta town work.
1. Have a discussion with the kids about doing what Mom says the first time....not the 10th.
2. Do NOT invite your nephews to join 4H at this meeting because it would result in Auntie driving them to every meeting. (Hauling 2 kids around for events is enough.)
3. Do NOT respond to social media requests to bring snacks for football, 4H, scouts or gun safety. If directly asked you must respond with, "check with my wife....I am not in the same state as her."
4. Your Dad will need to take a raincheck on any baked goods he thinks he deserves for taking care of unwanted critters.
Ahhh but life would be boring if we were not kept busy with this that and four other events all at the same times in 2 different towns.