I don't play the high school sports political game very well. So my kids are on JV and not on Varsity. You have to work at our school to get a kid on Varsity in the 8th grade. You do a lot of ticking off of families and players when you move 8th graders above 10-12th graders who bust their butts with the best of them and pay for expensive camps, drive to and fro for summer leagues, and then get benched behind a youngster with political pull and a bit of talent. And it ruins programs when they all quit. So I'm against moving up young kids. Personally. I've watched our girl Basketball program almost decimated by this strategy. DH says it's been going on since the beginning of time. Just because it has doesn't mean I have to agree with it.
I don't care how good you are. Alot more comes out of comradery and team play than personal acceleration. "There is no 'I' in Team." And if it isn't 'fun' any more then you're playing for the wrong reasons. Running is an individual sport.
And as for coaches. There are good and bad. For certain. DH coached Little league the few years that our kids were in it. He saw it all....as there is as you can imagine a myriad of 'parenting' techniques being reflected in children and their attitudes. And he would take the heat for who was playing and who wasn't getting played enough. We had an excellent coach for a special tournament last year who volunteered his time in June for this tournament. We played tough teams and faired not so well at that level of play with a small school team. One Mom came unglued with this guy...while everyone else thanked him for his time and efforts. Guess who looked the fool.
My two cents, Layers. Go to school, get educated. Sports second. I like you're tenacity and I think you'll go far. You're certainly driven. But you better have a back up plan. Getting involved with adult "Days of our Lives -Sports -Politics" will give you nothing but headaches and maybe even a fight that you know maybe whole story-maybe not. Keeping the drama on the Down Low has always been my motto and served me well. I tell my kids just go out there, enjoy your friends and game, have fun.
Soapbox is kicked out from underneath BC.
Ed. This apple Pie is a liquor recipe bottled in a Mason Jar. I would love the baked goods. So alas I'm not as lucky as you think I am.