BDM - I sent you an email regarding my little Gray SFH girl. Maybe I should post that here and see what folks think.
I had this thought after I wrote it. I thought that if she would perhaps go broody that may change the personality of things and her willingness to stand up for herself and the chicks. Of course I know I can't count on her going broody.
That bird is such a dilemma.
LM - sorry -
I did get your email and was going to reply...
If you can find someone who has all different age groups, your girl would likely adjust really well if put with a group of younger chickens. (Of course this is my opinion and results may vary.) I would take her if you were closer. I have all different age groups in different pens. I've done that before with birds at the bottom of the pecking order with good results.