I am really bothered by my 17 y.o. son's attitude toward his sister (who is 15 y.o.). Last night, he threw a big fit when I asked him to include his sister in some plans he has to have friends over to our house. The "plans" involved inviting people from his theater group over to eat pizza and watch a DVD version of the play they will put on this spring. My hubby & I thought we'd leave the group, go out to dinner, order pizza for the entire group, DD included. She would have the option of watching the movie (think My Fair Lady, the King & I, etc.)
or she could go chill in her room.
Son threw a big fit - "No way. You are not going to force me to hang out with her. I will just take the DVD somewhere else." To make things clear - this young man has a very active & independent social life. He has a car & money and gets to go many places. We welcome his friends into our home all the time. All these friends are friendly and nice to the entire family, including DD. I have never, ever forced him to take her with him to the movies, mall, etc. So I was just soooo angry that he refused to be "forced" to interact with his sister for a couple of hours. She is a very sweet, shy kid, who doesn't have alot of friends. I told him that I am ashamed of him. And I am! He is not a nice or empathetic person.
I wasn't making him take to her prom or something - for crying out loud! Anyway DH is angry, too. Wants to revoke DS's car access for the weekend...
Son threw a big fit - "No way. You are not going to force me to hang out with her. I will just take the DVD somewhere else." To make things clear - this young man has a very active & independent social life. He has a car & money and gets to go many places. We welcome his friends into our home all the time. All these friends are friendly and nice to the entire family, including DD. I have never, ever forced him to take her with him to the movies, mall, etc. So I was just soooo angry that he refused to be "forced" to interact with his sister for a couple of hours. She is a very sweet, shy kid, who doesn't have alot of friends. I told him that I am ashamed of him. And I am! He is not a nice or empathetic person.
I wasn't making him take to her prom or something - for crying out loud! Anyway DH is angry, too. Wants to revoke DS's car access for the weekend...
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