THATS IT I QUIT

[KatyTheChickenLady]

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tard??? does this mean what I think it means?

 

[walkswithdog]

Anybody who counts their chickens BEFORE they're hatched certainly missed the meaning behind an adage about as old as time - which starts with DON'T count your chickens before they're hatched.

Hatching is the point at which potential for life, becomes life. Not an equation. Not a certainty. Nothing ever guaranteed.

Deciding that you WANT to hatch eggs doesn't not make it happen.

Learning to hatch eggs makes it happen. And no you won't always get it right. Among the things that happen when you are learning a new skill are mistakes and failures. You learn more from mistakes than you do if the first three hatches go perfectly. Because you LEARN to THINK, to understand how it works and why it works and what the actual parameters are instead of the "rules" for the sake of the rules.

Even people who incubate to near perfection, in lockstep with every last rule, lose hatches.

Again, there are no guarantees. This is participating in nature and nature does it's own thing. There are factors you cannot see.

Absolutely if you approach this like there is some kind of guarantee and count every egg like a it's a chick already, you will be frustrated.

This is part of an amazing process, you get to be part of a mystery and a miracle. But it's also about accepting the failures, the learning, the mistakes, the accidents and the good and the poor outcomes.

The mistake you made was thinking wanting something, counting on it, would make it happen. Try, live, learn, grow. Anything worth doing is worth the work to learn to do it right.

If you don't do work and learn and grow, then no, we cannot help you.

 

[bikergirl]

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GOOD POST