I wanted to ask my son if he'd seen or heard from Wendy, his girlfriend before the evil redhead he married. Wendy was a beautiful girl his own age and I liked her, but she had a young toddler, a son, and that sort of concerned me, the ready-made family thing, however, she was very nice to us, very friendly and sweet. They suddenly broke up and I didn't know until a long time later why, but needless to say, I realized that there were worse things than marrying a woman with a child (like the one he did marry).
Anyway, he called today and said he ran into someone who said to tell us hello. It was Wendy. Her son she had when they were dating, Logan, is 22 and getting married. And today was her daughter's 18th birthday. I still have no idea if she is married or not, but I never asked him because he'd tell me I was pushing him on her. The truth is that I have wondered for years how she was and what her life had turned out like, not that I feel he should rebound with anyone, period. I felt that his life would have turned out better if he had forgiven her for what broke them up and just got back together all those years ago. Maybe it wouldn't, hard to know what would have happened, but I just wish he had not wasted half his life with the ungrateful, nasty wench that he did. Water under the bridge, as they say.
Bailey is so weak, but she perked up and actually ate some pancake pieces I threw to Bash today! I had to take her out of the hospital cage to put Betsy in there because of her injured leg. When Bailey would dive for the food, she'd fall over, she's so weak. I hope she can rally, but it may be too late. MaryJo seems okay, though so thin. I think she'll be fine. She's energetic and shows interest in food and life.