kitkat5505
Songster
My family does a white elephant gift exchange at my Mom’s for the adults. Anyone who wants to participate brings a $20 gift and we draw numbers and pick a gift in that order and have the choice to steal someone else’s gift or choose a wrapped one. This helps because I’ve got a big family and it keeps the pressure off having to buy something for everyone. The kids get gifts from grandparents and sometimes from a couple aunts and uncles, but most of the party is focused on eating and spending time together.Well...it looks like Christmas around here is going to be very peaceful. I am one of those folks that wishes that I could go to sleep a couple weeks before and then have someone wake me up when it's done and let me know what happened
I think that's because when I was younger with kids around, it never felt like I could afford to do enough.
We've started a new tradition with my adult kids. We don't buy gifts for each other, but we do a variation on what my Grandma did. She called it the "lucky tub". She would purchase inexpensive gifts, wrap them and put them in the tub (an old wash-tub). They would each have numbers on them. Then we'd pick a number from a bowl, and get whatever was in that numbered gift. They were really inexpensive, but it was fun for us at Grandmas.
So each of us brings 2 gifts wrapped that are $15 worth. We put them all in the "tub" (a wire half-bushel in this case), then we play short competitive games like "minute to win it" that have been altered to make it work. Then the winner of each game gets to pick a gift. Of course, everyone wins, and I usually put a few more in than 2.
This seriously has taken that feeling of wanting to hide out of Christmas. We enjoy playing the games and eating, and no one is stressed over finding the "perfect gift".
I love Christmas, but I’m also relieved when it’s over and all that stress is gone for another year.
I’ve had people ask me how my chickens can lay eggs without a rooster, if brown eggs are healthier, if I am going to hatch some (again, no rooster...), etc. Common sense isn’t so common these days.