The Front Porch Swing

Hey Blooie, got time for a grandbaby story? In about 2009 our oldest daughter was informed that she and her husband would never be able to have children.. They were devastated. They tried everything to become parents, and finally applied to DHS to become foster parents hoping that they might be able to adopt a child. It was only a few weeks and they received a telephone call informing them that there was a little 3 month old baby boy that had been rescued from a drug addict mother and was in very poor health. The kids were told that there was a VERY good chance that this baby would be up for adoption fairly quickly. Within minutes they were at the DHS office getting the baby and me and Grandad was in the car headed to their house to see our new grandbaby. We were all so excited and he was so precious and beautiful to us. They called him Bo. I was a little apprehensive, our youngest daughter had already given birth to our first grandson and I was unsure that I could love Bo as much as I did Branson. But soon after arriving at our daughter house and she handed me that baby all doubt was gone. I was in love and I knew there would never be any difference in loving the two boys. As the months rocked on no natural family member came forward to claim custody of Bo and things were going good. It was one week before Christmas and we were all excited with buying presents for the two boys and then the dreaded phone call came. Bo's maternal grandparents had came forward and said that they felt that he was old enough now that they could care for him. OLD ENOUGH NOW ?????......I would have gave my life for this little Bo seconds after I held him and they had made the decision to wait almost a year before even coming to see him. HOW DARE THEM. But in the eyes of the law they had all the rights and we had none. So one week before Christmas they took our little Bo and had denied us any future contact with him. I can not even describe the pain we all felt, and I was so worried about my daughter she went into a deep depression. The only thing I could compare it to was the death of my parents. To us it was like he had died. But God with all His wonderful mercy and love brought comfort. A few months later our younger daughter gave birth to their second son Triton and within 2 months our oldest daughter received "the call" again and there was a little 2 year old girl that WOULD be up for adoption and within 6 months Laney Grace was adopted. Soon after that another call and DHS had 2 siblings a 2 year old boy and 2 month old baby girl. Soon Jerod and Carly became grandchildren #4 and 5. So within 2 1/2 years we went from no grandchildren to 5 grandchildren. We also have a foster granddaughter that we are still unused of the future outcome. We can only pray for God's will and accept what ever He has planned for "stinkbait" (we are not allowed to use her name on any internet site) so we just call her stinkbait. So even though the loss of Bo was a tragedy to us, God knew Bo had someone that would care for him (eventually), but our little Laney, Jerod, and Carly had NO ONE to care for them and they needed us but not as much as we need them. So Blooie that's my Nana story. Sorry it was so long...... I will end this story with this thought. INK IS AS THICK AS BLOOD. Adoption or natural born makes no difference to a grandparent we love all just the same!
 
Amen!  I don't know how she does it.  Last year her two ducks, Chester and Emma, became the proud parents of 12 - at least I think it was 12. Might have been more.  They lived in the house full time too.  This year Emma had 10 more hatch out - but these guys will live outdoors as soon as her SO builds a place for them to live.  It's amazing - she has several dog crates.  Emma nests in the metal one and the plastic ones are for transporting them.  When she claps her hands they split into groups and head into the crates.  She takes them out for a romp in the grass and sun and a swim in the pond.  When she's ready to bring them in she does the same thing in reverse and carries the crates inside.  At night they have a room downstairs, but during the day they are upstairs with her.  


And the duckiepoo?

I tried to brood 12 ducklings in my house and it drove me NUTS! Keep I mind I brooded something like 50 chicks in my office all at the same time. Then 5 turkeys and 7 roosters and some absolutely awful pheasants. But ducks are different!
 
Hey Blooie, got time for a grandbaby story? In about 2009 our oldest daughter was informed that she and her husband would never be able to have children.. They were devastated. They tried everything to become parents, and finally applied to DHS to become foster parents hoping that they might be able to adopt a child. It was only a few weeks and they received a telephone call informing them that there was a little 3 month old baby boy that had been rescued from a drug addict mother and was in very poor health. The kids were told that there was a VERY good chance that this baby would be up for adoption fairly quickly. Within minutes they were at the DHS office getting the baby and me and Grandad was in the car headed to their house to see our new grandbaby. We were all so excited and he was so precious and beautiful to us. They called him Bo. I was a little apprehensive, our youngest daughter had already given birth to our first grandson and I was unsure that I could love Bo as much as I did Branson. But soon after arriving at our daughter house and she handed me that baby all doubt was gone. I was in love and I knew there would never be any difference in loving the two boys. As the months rocked on no natural family member came forward to claim custody of Bo and things were going good. It was one week before Christmas and we were all excited with buying presents for the two boys and then the dreaded phone call came. Bo's maternal grandparents had came forward and said that they felt that he was old enough now that they could care for him. OLD ENOUGH NOW ?????......I would have gave my life for this little Bo seconds after I held him and they had made the decision to wait almost a year before even coming to see him. HOW DARE THEM. But in the eyes of the law they had all the rights and we had none. So one week before Christmas they took our little Bo and had denied us any future contact with him. I can not even describe the pain we all felt, and I was so worried about my daughter she went into a deep depression. The only thing I could compare it to was the death of my parents. To us it was like he had died. But God with all His wonderful mercy and love brought comfort. A few months later our younger daughter gave birth to their second son Triton and within 2 months our oldest daughter received "the call" again and there was a little 2 year old girl that WOULD be up for adoption and within 6 months Laney Grace was adopted. Soon after that another call and DHS had 2 siblings a 2 year old boy and 2 month old baby girl. Soon Jerod and Carly became grandchildren #4 and 5. So within 2 1/2 years we went from no grandchildren to 5 grandchildren. We also have a foster granddaughter that we are still unused of the future outcome. We can only pray for God's will and accept what ever He has planned for "stinkbait" (we are not allowed to use her name on any internet site) so we just call her stinkbait. So even though the loss of Bo was a tragedy to us, God knew Bo had someone that would care for him (eventually), but our little Laney, Jerod, and Carly had NO ONE to care for them and they needed us but not as much as we need them. So Blooie that's my Nana story. Sorry it was so long...... I will end this story with this thought. INK IS AS THICK AS BLOOD. Adoption or natural born makes no difference to a grandparent we love all just the same!
Oh what a wonderful story!! And what a happy family! I will add my prayers to yours for "Stinkbait!" When we found out that Kendra would be born with Spina Bifida, the first words out of my son's mouth were, "Imperfect doesn't mean unlovable!" Bo was a gift. Who knows, maybe he was brought into your lives to pave the way for those who needed your family most. All I know is that you are one very blessed Nana, and those are some very blessed grandchildren!
 
Wow!!! Thud!!!

I simply cannot imagine. Not in a million years. But I want more ducks SO bad ... I want Cayugas.

I promised the ducks, and myself, I will not add to that flock until I've upgraded their habitat.
 
The power of this group is amazing! Thank you all for your support. and for helping me begin to regain my faith.
Our offer has been accepted - and baring any unforeseen problems - we are buying a house with a bunch of farm-buildings on 25 acres.
I am offering extra seating on my-soon-to-be front porch. :)
 
The power of this group is amazing! Thank you all for your support. and for helping me begin to regain my faith.
Our offer has been accepted - and baring any unforeseen problems - we are buying a house with a bunch of farm-buildings on 25 acres.
I am offering extra seating on my-soon-to-be front porch. :)


Ooooooooo, I LOVE that porch! I have a thing for porches.....
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Oh, praise the Lord for His goodness and your home! I'm so excited for you and it isn't even mine!
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Of course...pics will be in demand when you get the time and will for it. Think of all the farmin' you can do now!
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I know! But she manages very well! She has several plastic dog crates. When she claps her hands the ducks split up into groups and go to their crates. She carries them downstairs and puts them out for romping and swimming and then does the same thing in reverse when it's time for them to go inside. Her rock dove, Nappy, was just a fledgling when he flew into her window and was injured. She ran out and brought him in, and he's lived in the house ever since too. That was two years ago. He and Chester sit on the arm of her SO's easy chair and share popcorn with him! She started out with three ducklings, but one was killed by a raccoon or something and she got so upset that Chester and Emma came inside and have been there since. I have a wild, wacky and wonderful family. When I told her I'd ordered chicks she just laughed at me - "Ma, looks like you're next." Um, no! Mine will live outside in a coop, thank you very much! LOL
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The power of this group is amazing! Thank you all for your support. and for helping me begin to regain my faith. Our offer has been accepted - and baring any unforeseen problems - we are buying a house with a bunch of farm-buildings on 25 acres. I am offering extra seating on my-soon-to-be front porch. :)
So happy for you. What a beautiful porch. Can't wait to come for a visit. I'll bring some cookies.
 
The power of this group is amazing! Thank you all for your support. and for helping me begin to regain my faith.
Our offer has been accepted - and baring any unforeseen problems - we are buying a house with a bunch of farm-buildings on 25 acres.
I am offering extra seating on my-soon-to-be front porch. :)
Oh that's fantastic! I see your name is Wyodreamer - dare I hope that we are going to become neighbors?
 

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