I got to see my niece today - the shower was informal and fun...She is such a sweetie. My brother died when she was quite young, I so wish he could see her now. She won full college scholarships for her musical talent, and now also has her Masters in Music

She has a fantastic job in the music industry and has a wonderful fiance'. I doubt I can attend her wedding, but maybe someone will change their vacation plans and I will be able to go?
Integration is going well for my newbies.....I haven't had the guts to just leave them with the elders 24 hours...but visitations are going well. DH lets them mingle several hours a day and views from the distance or from inside the house. The young ones are getting big, but not yet big enough to defend theirselves if there were real confrontations. But they can outrun, out jump and out maneuver the old biddies

And the elders IMO are somewhat afraid of the "littles" when the 4 are all together

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