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sharron said:
yes dd, altho at first she talked about "moving", she thought she had a choice but husband couldn't take it any more and i was caught in the middle but she pitched one too many fits with me and i just couldn't take it any more either, the last time we were over 500 miles into the trip when son called and said she fell and now wouldn't get up out of her bed, told him to call the ambulance and we turned around and drove the 500 miles back, went to the hospital and she started on me, it was my fault she was in the hospital, that i called them to take her, tried talking to her but she just wouldn't believe me so i called the manager at the nursing home to take her when she was discharged, she picked her up and thats where shes at now, finally turned back into my sister by the time we got back from florida( melissa told us to go, she didn't want us to come until shirley settled down and got used to the place, big guilt trip ,still fill so guilty about not taking care of her but just can't do it :hit
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That must have been so hard Sharron. Don't beat yourself up :hugs
 
rjohns39 said:
Morning Folks :frow
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N F C said:
Good morning Bob & all!
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DigMyChicks said:
Good morning all. It’s supposed to be nice the next two days and then our snowstorm hits. We had a dumping on April 14th last year. I was so hoping we were done.
I got an unexpected call from my old Subway boss last night. He heard about me quitting my Para job and thought maybe I’d like to work for him again.(I wondered how fast that would fly around town:hmm)I told him no and reminded him of the reasons why I left and he understood.
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Chick-N-Fun said:
Good morning! :frow
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007Sean said:
Morning everyone! :frow
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good evening everyone:frow
had to go get blood work done this morning, have to go to dr friday morning and he always want to know what my a1c is(me too) then we took off for the auction, needed eggs til i get my chickens home and see if my young are laying yet soooo:frow:frow
 
N F C said:
That must have been so hard Sharron. Don't beat yourself up :hugs
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thats awfully hard not to debby when growing up my sister always took the time to do things with me, shes 13 yrs older than me and she always told momma i was Her baby sister, i could ask her or tell her things i couldn't talk over with momma(very old fashioned and shy about things a young girl should know)
 
hope your a1c is good. Last time I had it done clinic nurse put in a machine and said 7 min. to get results. I don't think that is accurate. They have always had me fast before the test then it was a couple days to the result. Funny they still charge just as much.
 
sharron said:
thats awfully hard not to debby when growing up my sister always took the time to do things with me, shes 13 yrs older than me and she always told momma i was Her baby sister, i could ask her or tell her things i couldn't talk over with momma(very old fashioned and shy about things a young girl should know)
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It's hard to see right now, but its gonna do alot to keep your relationship healthy. She will always be your big sister, but you can't be like her mother. You can care about her, but taking care or her is a whole different thing, especially if she becomes angry or unreasonable. Let the nursing home staff be "the bad guys" you can then be the sympathetic ear, and take her out to dinner etc. You will be the "good guy" then.
 
drumstick diva said:
hope your a1c is good. Last time I had it done clinic nurse put in a machine and said 7 min. to get results. I don't think that is accurate. They have always had me fast before the test then it was a couple days to the result. Funny they still charge just as much.
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yes, always have to fast,hoping that its gone down this time, been trying to watch what i eat, have managed to lose a few lbs so:fl, i always go to the hospital to have blood drawn, which the hospital is 8 miles away, at least the one i like, the one thats only 5 miles away, nope, they will kill you
 
Bamabexchicks said:
It's hard to see right now, but its gonna do alot to keep your relationship healthy. She will always be your big sister, but you can't be like her mother. You can care about her, but taking care or her is a whole different thing, especially if she becomes angry or unreasonable. Let the nursing home staff be "the bad guys" you can then be the sympathetic ear, and take her out to dinner etc. You will be the "good guy" then.
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i know, but its hard and we do try to take her out once a week to window shop and have lunch out, oh well i will just have to live with it.
 
Cynthia12 said:
Who hasn't seen this...? Thinking most have..but..I love it!!
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Very cute!
sharron said:
yes dd, altho at first she talked about "moving", she thought she had a choice but husband couldn't take it any more and i was caught in the middle but she pitched one too many fits with me and i just couldn't take it any more either, the last time we were over 500 miles into the trip when son called and said she fell and now wouldn't get up out of her bed, told him to call the ambulance and we turned around and drove the 500 miles back, went to the hospital and she started on me, it was my fault she was in the hospital, that i called them to take her, tried talking to her but she just wouldn't believe me so i called the manager at the nursing home to take her when she was discharged, she picked her up and thats where shes at now, finally turned back into my sister by the time we got back from florida( melissa told us to go, she didn't want us to come until shirley settled down and got used to the place, big guilt trip ,still fill so guilty about not taking care of her but just can't do it :hit
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You are not responsible for your sister, I’m sorry you had to go through that. :hugs
drumstick diva said:
hope your a1c is good. Last time I had it done clinic nurse put in a machine and said 7 min. to get results. I don't think that is accurate. They have always had me fast before the test then it was a couple days to the result. Funny they still charge just as much.
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Why do you have to fast for an a1c?
 

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