Sorry your DH lost his Mom.Well damn, DH just called to let me know his mother passed away. Her lung cancer moved to her brain and she's been in hospice the past 10 days.
I'm not going to sugar coat it, she was a miserable and mean person who managed to alienate all 4 of her children. But I kept hoping things would improve between her & DH. Now that won't ever happen and it just all seems like such a shame for all involved.
Remember to hug the people you care about, tell them you love them and make any amends needed before it's too late.