got to go in the nursing home to see my sissie today, she had fallen last week, or maybe the first of this past week, either way i found out two day after, she fractured her hip, when i was informed i decided not to let them operate on her hip(i remember how that turned out for my mil) so today i get another call from the visiting nurse telling me i should go see her that shes not doing well, she has a liquid cough and going down hill. i was surprised that they allowed us in but i got to see her and talk to her, she didn't open her eyes ( one eye) til the of the visit when i was holding her hands and telling her i loved her. shes lost a lot of weight and now doesn't talk, but she will grunt at you i guess to let you know she knows you're there. i suppose its getting time for her to leave
