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My sister makes her own clothes too. I think she even made my Mom a nightgown.My mother made most of my church, school, and play clothes. She was a wonderful seamstress, and the clothes were nice, BUT she was color blind. We got into more arguments, because she simply couldn't distinguish, and coordinate colors. Dad didn't want to hurt her feelings, so unless her combinations were garish, he wouldn't get involved. She took it as a challenge for dominance if I even suggested a different color trim, or material pattern. A child had to know their place.
I was about 11, when one day mom, me, both of her sisters, and their daughters went to a fabric store. My cousins began picking out the trim for the outfits my Aunts were going to make for them. My mother was shocked, and mentioned to her sisters that as adults, they were to pick those items out. Children should never be in charge of things like that. They both looked at her with amazement, and let her know they were color blind. Their daughters were not color blind, therefore did a better job at picking trim colors. Mom blinked hard, and tried to hush them up about being color blind, like it was some dark secret to be kept hidden. They laughed at her, and carried on like it was nothing. It took awhile for it to sink in, but the next time we went to the fabric store, for the first time, she let me pick the trim for my outfits, BUT I was not to mention anything about her being color blind.
Thankfully nowadays we get to pick our own stuff out here.