My mother's hair was red (gray now, of course). None of her kids were redheads; she sooo hoped that she'd get a redheaded grandkid. Sorry, Mom, it just didn't work out that way. BUT! Mom also has curly hair, and my brother got that. Aaand so did BB2K. It was just a little wavy when she was little, but the curls really came in when she hit adolescence. At first, she fought the floof with a straightening iron, but in this humid climate, that's not a battle one can really win. So, she has learned to "go with the 'fro flow." The secrets, apparently, are: use a great conditioner; comb it when it's wet; and then, leave it alone! It's a fun look on her, and she really rocks it with crazy colors like red and/or purple.