I hear ya Penny. Dad worked, mom was a stay at home mom until dad hurt his back and then she worked until he could again. She canned all the food we ate and when I was old enough help I did. I don't know how many summer afternoons were spent snapping beans and peeling blanched tomatoes. We pulled our weight.Our house is comfortable I wipe counters 6 times a day do my dishes if I cook as I go
but grew up with a Ma that supported the family Dad was a mailman, Ma would say part time job but full time paycheck he was home allot I worked the farm with Dad so did Ma
my Brother did when he was asked my half sister sat inside split her tight jeans on a horse would not ride again
Yeah, I have a pan of soapy water with a tablespoon of bleach in it sitting in the sink. Wipe down countertops 4 times a day if not more often. Not a compulsive cleaner by a long shot. Just share the house with 5 cats that know better than to get on the counters when I'm around but always have smug looks on their faces when I come inside.


