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She's lovely, Melabella! Just wanted to say, if that is your name, it is the most melodious and pretty name I've heard in a month of Sundays...I love saying it! Melabella. I said it again!
Awww.... thank you Bee!![]()
I adore my name, simply adore it as I was named after one of my favorite people to have ever walked the earth. My maternal grandmother, Carmela Leonardi DiMauro. My nickname stuck very early on, Mela (means apple in Italian)... my mother said when I was a baby. Bella,(meaning beautiful) of course in my parents eyes because to them I was beautiful. Melabella it was. Carmela means Garden and Mt. Carmel is often thought of as a garden paradise.
If I ever had to be lost in the wilderness, I would have wanted to be lost with my grandmother. She was the world to me growing up, this incredible dynamic Sicilian immigrant making her way in NYC when she arrived here at 20 years old. She was a peasant, who learned to live off the land from her parents who lived on a citrus farm. She could cook anything, take care of any animal or person, graft trees, grow anything, cooked like a gourmet chef with whatever ingredients were available and sewed all our clothes, bedspreads, curtains, and whatever else we needed. We would walk in the woods, and she would point out what I could eat, and what NOT to eat. She was always taking small clippings of things, and they would be miraculously growing in her house a few weeks later. One time, I took her to the N Y Botanical Gardens, she was in her 80's, and could walk anywhere. When we got back into the car after walking around for hours, she unfolded her apron and unfolded at least 10 cuttings of samples she had been pilfering along the way. "Noni" I shouted,,, "That's illegal!" she responded..."who owns plants of the earth, only God" She told me stories about feeding her baby sister with goats milk after her mother took sic after delivering her. She had to care for her sick father who was dying at the age of 10 while her mother was at work, trying to earn enough to feed them. I hung on her every word, and I felt like the CAT's MEOW that I was the one named for her, not my other 6 brother, sisters or cousins. She was the BOMB as my kids would say, and for us oldies... that means she was everything, certainly everthing to me.
I get a lot of compliments on Melabella, I once joined a large group of woman who were so much fun online watching a live cam litter of puppies we were all following. The owner of the dogs said the same thing to me...."where did you get that name Melabella, I think I will name one of my dogs that, it is so much fun to say" It makes me smile because I feel it's Noni talking to me from somewhere up in a place I can only imagine about. So, it's not suprising to me at all, she reached through another wonderful Earth woman, who lives her life much the way she did, to say hello to me today, and remind me that she loves me. I am so very happy to have her name, and thank you for the wonderful compliment and chance to express a bit about myself to you all.
Have a great rest of the day all,
Melabella
