The Story of Sam and Jenn--How it all went down

[nerfy]

Many thanks to all that busted the bullcrap. Though I did not follow all the posts, it's pretty pathetic someone has so much time to make up so many stories. I almost feel sorry for him. Must be a very lonely person that has nothing constructive to do.
Very sad when a person takes advantage of good hearts.

 

[FrenchHen]

It's like Law and Order, BYC.

 

[Cetawin]

I will enlighten the group to my "flags" on this issue...

Personal experience. I had an emergency C section at 32 weeks and I can tell you I was not texting anyone....I was praying, breathing and signing a NR order so that the surgeon would save my child and let me die. After 18 hours of induced labor, a stroke, renal failure and a host of other issues...I wanted to die just to rest. I was not texting anyone nor was I on the phone.

Second flag...my DD was 2 lbs 10 oz at birth...about the size of those babies in the pictures posted....those babies were not 1 pounders...sorry no way not happening. My DD had a set of triplets right beside her that were 1 pounders.

Third flag...her "rapid" recovery and ability to go home so quickly.

Fourth flag ... I know everyone handles grief in different ways, however, a extremely hormonal woman (which every woman who has just given birth is), is not going to post "hahas" and such on a web forum much less even be here chatting it up.

Fifth flag...I was married a cop...Sam was about as close to being a real cop as I am to becoming Sophia Loren when I wake up in the morning.

Sixth flag...No matter how many people offered assistance, wanted to help, they stayed very clear of any assistance. I can tell you from my experience that had she had three pre mature babies, a death and the grief, she would also need help and being worrying about funeral arrangements, baby stuff, the ENORMOUS medical bills to come...her concern would have been evident and it was not.

The kicker...NO WAY on this earth is a woman who gave birth going out tagging calves 2 days after giving birth. 100 years ago I would buy that but today? After what she suppoedly went through.

Through all of the flags, my own heart as a mother and as woman who has gone through a horrid near death experience in childbirth, wanted to help her. Until the point of her blatant refusable to accept assistance and going as far as to say money would be returned etc etc...I still wanted to believe and to help her.

As well, I must be getting soft in my old age because 5 years ago had you thrown me into this same situation, I would have said to her/them

"Sorry sister, I went through worse and was at work and in court the day after I came home (2 weeks after having a stroke) so suck it up and take care of your babies, handle what must be handled and get it done"

*shrugs* callus? Probably but it was fact. Now anyone who wishes to question this story of mine... I gave birth on Aug. 9th, 1996 and Florida Hospital in Orlando Florida at 5:25 pm. Most folks here know my DDs name so have at it...research away because unlike many...I have notta to hide.

Life goes on...and if we could turn off our hearts and listen to those little warnings in our head...

well...I prefer to listen with heart these days and not be the "Ice Princess" as I was once called.

 

[PunkerTechnoRoo?ter]

3. No Flaming (verbally attacking people or groups of people - e.g. a profession, an organization, a company.)​

 

[mtnhomechick]

PunkërTeçhñöRøø§ter :​

Roma like?

 

[debilorrah]

Again, color me stupid.

 

[PunkerTechnoRoo?ter]

No Flaming (verbally attacking people or groups of people - e.g. a profession, an organization, a company.)​

 

[herbandteas]

So have they been banned on BYC? Or did they just go away?

 

[PunkerTechnoRoo?ter]

Banned

https://www.backyardchickens.com/forum/viewtopic.php?id=135472

 

[mtnhomechick]

PunkërTeçhñöRøø§ter :​

My Adopted Son is Roma and he is none of the above.

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